2006年4月3日

好家長

做人應該公平點,有橫蠻無理的家長,也會有講理的家長。我份人性格並不如外表般熱情好客,傾向冷淡,怕煩(例如常常忘記別人的生日…),但亦好簡單,你對我好,我會惦記著的。

正如上次話給我代禱的家長,或者常常拿糕餅來學校的媽媽,默默為各種學習困難而奮鬥的學童的家長,或來學校當義工的媽媽爸爸們,我覺得肯犧牲自己的時間而聚到學校來,都藉得我們感謝。總不成常常猜度別人有什麼動機,是為靠攏學校還是打聽風聲。我們應該珍惜純粹的人,有時,我們應該願意相信。

家長們最近在舉辦敬師活動。當然,同事們都覺得,只要學生聽聽話話,已是最大的回報。

不過跟一兩位家長談起,他們生怕舉辦活動老師都不願來,不因為忙碌的原因,更擔心老師怕了日投訴夜投訴的家長出現而不來。他們舉辦家校活動時戰戰兢兢的心情,不下教師們在家長日時的心情。

修補決裂的關係並不容易。正如傳媒的自由正在因各種侵犯私隱作大等而自我侵蝕時,其實如果我們都安份點、講理點,何須時常呈威風、偏要佔領高地,大家的關係也會融洽點。

呢篇呢,係悶d,我也不是要在這個blog平衡什麼東西,只是覺得做人還是公平點好。

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今時今日,傳媒真得人驚,連梁成恩遺張玲芝都跟縱偷拍,為咩﹖做人呢,都係積番d陰德好。

9 則留言:

匿名 說...

Since you don't really charge people reading your blog, I for one dare not to complain subjective things like "boring."
I applaud all parents who make an effort to participate their kids' school activities.
Thank you for keeping my day job unproductive...

laichungleung

dada 說...

係"遺孀"呀 missy

Lau Cheuk Hei 說...

of cause i agree that become a farer peson is better. But miss Lee, have you ever think about us, your dear students, facing the problem that the usual changing of math teacher, it is not fare to us which causing the teaching style's change and the result of that.


it is so confuse that to understand and to adapt a brand new mode of learning and the weird english of the new teacher.

although i know that you are a good teacher which always care of our "business". I know this is so annoying, but i think you can think of a method to change us.

Which can remove part of the pressure of teaching.

At last, happy of having you as my class mitress and hope to change my seat(Marco is very annoying and clumsy

五師兄 說...

我個人偏向幫老師 rather than 家長。一個人(家長 and kids and 老師)一日都有24hours。8hours sleep,周公負責;8hours at school,so ok 老師負責;so 家長理應負責 remaining 8 hours。所以老師與家長應是一對好 partner。

但一個月後我自己便做家長了,到時難保會推哂D責任去老師那邊啦!


By the way,我搬了。

不是說我的家(我一個月前的確搬了家,現在仍為那無敵海景而興奮。),而是說我的 Blog。

由今天起,「五師兄」的新住址是: ngszehin.mysinablog.com。

RSS Feed 沒變,仍是:http://feeds.feedburner.com/Room2046

MissLee 說...

It seems that I should reply in English this time.

Cheuk Hei, I am glad to hear that you like me to be your class mistress...I always think that you are an independent boy who does not like the teachers to follow you around. In fact, I must admit that I do not know how to be a good class mistress except keeping a close relationship with parents and with you all. However I found out at the beginning of this year that not everyone in S2W like me to bother them too much. You guys like to have fun on your own instead of having the teacher around. This is a bit different from my classes in the past two year.

I don't know what should I do to show my care to you all except taking the routine way like having lunch with you. I don't know how to raise your scores expecially of English, with the fact that I am not your English teacher. I agree that keeping some of you at the library is not the best way to do, but that's already the most I can do and I can think of. Do you have any good ideas to share? Feel free to leave a message here. And I really appreciate your willingness to leave your name.

About the maths teacher..well, we all miss Dr. Leung but he won't be here anymore. Why did Ma Sir also leave in a sudden? I don't know neither. We can't change the fact / reality sometimes. We'd just have to adapt to it. Sound pessimistic? Yeah...I agree.

I never think of changing my students. I believe that the change should come from them.

Dada: Thanks a lot!!

Brother 5: Why is everyone changing to Sinablog!!! Anyway, congradulations to the new family member?? I thought you are already a father, right?

Laichungleung: I can't always keep you 'unproductive' since I myself am a bit unproductive lately too!!

五師兄 說...

Miss Lee, your student could write some good English! You are teaching them very well!

Me? Not yet. Jac Jac who is coming to this world in 3 weeks time is my first child.

I am still new to Sinablog. Hope it would treat me better (than Blogger).

laichungleung 說...
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匿名 說...

lau cheuk hei:
I feel like I owe it to you to say the following:-

"Of course" not "of cause"

"Have you ever thought" not "have you ever think"

"fair" not "fare"

"it is so confusing" not "it is so confuse"

"you are a good teacher who always cares" not "you are a good teacher which always care"

The rest I leave it your English teacher (whom I believe is not Miss Lee by the way).

And if possible refrain from criticizing your teacher's English being weird, he or she is after all, your teacher whom you should respect. Sorry, I am kind of old fashioned. I bet you hurt Marco's feeling by calling him clumsy and annoying...

Things don't always go your way, sometimes you just have to learn to live with disappointments.

I have said more than I should but since you are a kid, I feel like I can pick on you, no just kidding, I feel like you are teachable or I have some obligation to the future of Hong Kong (Wow, I can't believe I said that).

I am no grammar police or even a teacher and I don't always write correctly myself, far from it. Did't they say to err is human?

I promise no more corrections, not qualified anyway.

peace out,
laichungleung

lau cheuk hei 說...

sorry that the eng is the custom while i was having my msn conversation...